Anxious about me and my boyfriend's families meeting for the first time...?

your family sadly is going to prove whats wrong with ignorant people in america now days. He is gonna get judged by the color of his skin so i hope he has tough skin. they might not say it out loud but he will be able to see them whisper or looking at him. I dont see this being good at all. Racist people don't just fix over night - and you shouldn't expect them too. Hopefully you guys have tough skin like i said.